Why do people living with you feel that they have equal rights in your house? If I say take off your shoes, then take off your shoes. If I choose to walk in my house with my shoes on, I’m going to clean the carpet if I get it dirty. You will not even offer to clean the carpet if you got it dirty.
When I say something, you want to take it like I’m being mean. But you ain’t paying my bills. You’re not even buying gas for my truck with the money that you give. You give $50. That’s to put on the light bill because the garage is insulated and heated and you use it all the time. That don’t do nothing for me. $50 a month yeah right!
And for in-laws and how they think that they can do whatever they want to do because I married their family member. That’s just stupid. Me and my husband split the bills in half all the way. If I don’t have it, he does and vice versa. So how do you think that he has more power than I do?
So when I voice my opinion, he backs me up. He has told them in a loud voice, and he doesn’t even yell, that this is her house, if me and her breakup, even just to give each other time apart or divorce, where do you think you going to live?
That made me sad that he feels that way BUT it is the truth. I want our house with no guests. 3 months is what was said. We’ll see. Lol. It’s only been 9 years.