That’s just how we’re made even though we are from the damn mother. This means that you are different than me, so stop acting like you are not. I may be smarter than you and you may know fashion better than me, but it doesn’t make neither one of us better than. We are just better in certain areas. This also means that we can help or even teach each other what we know.
When I wake up, I have a very deep voice
When around the car guys, I am a little quiet
When I am at work, I am very proper and educated to the black people that work with me but blackish to the white people
My phone voice has been said to sound like a phone sex operator
When I am mad, everything goes out the window and I yell
I am said to be hood crazy when I am around people that my husband works with as this is how he paints my picture. No harm though
My one coworker says I have a potty mouth, I will admit, I curse a lot and there is room for improvement!
If I smell your feet. You done smelled them early this morning. Don’t come and put your feet on my couch!
Don’t say you will do something and don’t. It makes people not take your word for worth. It is also how you burn bridges.
You are told to find yourself. I am very smart, intelligent, and resourceful. When I speak, I sound very proper. Some say I am white and I am a black woman, but my voice comes across as a white woman. This impression comes from black people, family members and Friends. When I am around white people, I am a black woman. Not one that’s trying to fit in, but one who knows a lot and can’t speak the language.
I have a degree and criminal science, a bachelor’s degree of Science in criminal justice in fact. I went to school after that for my Master’s Degree and I failed after three quarters of my schooling because you can only have to “B”‘s during your time and I had a C+. I got suspended for a year and it really messed with my educational confidence.
I am considered the family forever nerd. It’s okay, I don’t mind, I know that I love to learn and I am a nerd. When internet resources and questions need to be answered, I am the one that they call. So I charged them for every call, every question, and every research request. Laugh at that you non nerds.
The point is find yourself, be yourself whoever you are as long as you are comfortable be happy.